Sex workers in Kolkata, Only the mud from the residence of a sex worker can make sure that the soul of the goddess is pure

Sex workers in Kolkata, Only the mud from the residence of a sex worker can make sure that the soul of the goddess is pure

Newcomers to the red light district  of Kolkata will be given a spot demonstration at the unit with the help of a dildo on how to use a condom.
Chumki is one of the 4000 sex workers who will be celebrating the Durga Puja in Sonagachhi this year. “Only we can make sure that the soul of the goddess is pure,” she states, referring to the tradition where idol makers and puja organisers come to Sonagachhi to collect mud from their residence. The mud is considered to be pure and to drive away evil from society. “Our tradition says that a man who enters our rooms becomes pure as he leaves all of his vices behind,” she says.

While some sex workers think that Durga Puja is a celebration of motherhood as they “mother many fathers” throughout the year, others are of the view of blending of puja and pleasure during five days. Special guests of sex workers, usually Babus, have also been invited for dinner. Babus are those who become psychologically involved with a particular sex-worker or share a ‘husband-wife’ relationship. (more…)

In a sensational disclosure of 2004, noted Tamil writer Anuradha Ramanan has alleged that Hindu pontiff, Kanchi Shankaracharya Jayendra Saraswati attempted to sexually abuse her in 1992. He was arrested with his junior, Vijayendra Saraswati in their alleged involvement in Shankara Raman murder case. The matter is still pending before the court. As many as 24 people are accused in the case which pertains to the murder of the manager of Varadaraja Perumal temple in Kanchipuram.

While the Hindu seer dated more with RSS boys, his behavior may just tip the scales to classify him as a sex addict. RSS don’t promote marriage and sexual intercourse as a concept to build a family. Instead they believe in Sangh Parivar, the brotherhood of Hindu extremism and the front end leaders are compelled to live as bachelors in public life.

In December 2006, BJP general secretary and RSS insider Sanjay Joshi quit his party post after an audio cassette, and later a VCD, showing him in a compromising position with a woman. RSS always claims of Brahmacharya (vow of celibacy) about their leaders and members. Joshi, like all other members of RSS, is supposed to be celibate and the CD has exposed these claims.

Jayalakshmi, the nurse who dared to reveal photographic evidence of her relationship with M P Renukacharya,

Jayalakshmi, the nurse who dared to reveal photographic evidence of her relationship with M P Renukacharya,

In April 2007, Jayalakshmi, a nurse from Bangalore attempted suicide following endless sexual harassment by M P Renukacharya, a Hindu extremist party (BJP) legislator and the Chairman of the Karnataka State Electronics Development Corporation Ltd. She later released the pictures and videos of the sexual assault in front of the media.

In the same period , a quantity of locally-made Viagra and sex stimulants were recovered from the baggage of a senior Parliament Member of BJP. Babubhai Katara was arrested at Delhi airport for trying to fly with a woman and teenager to Toronto on the diplomatic passports of his family. He was arrested with one Paramjeet Kaur and a 15-year-old boy, Amarjeet Singh, who were posing as his wife and son.

According to specialists, sex addiction can involve a wide variety of practices. A large number of sex addicts say their unacceptable sexual practices have been the result of a gradual process.

It may have started with an unhealthy relationship, but over the years deteriorated to include compulsive behaviour which is frequently damaging.

Psychologist Sujendra Prakash says he’s come across several cases of happily married men who are addicted to sex. “They are rarely caught,”he says. “This may be because they are not celebrities, but social restrictions in our society mean that much is kept under wraps.”

According to him, “Those who display such behaviour are highly insecure people, mostly uncertain of their potency. They are are not good in bed. They indulge in promiscuous sexual activity to keep proving themselves. Their life is a lie and they lie to everybody. It is just like any other personality disorder and cannot be easily overcome.”

Experts also feel that sex addicts gain very little pleasure from actual physical contact. Yet they engage in sexual activities they don’t enjoy because they are trying to alter their own mood, and to anaesthetise painful feelings of low self-esteem or loneliness. “In our society, sex addicts are forced to wear a mask; they may appear harmless, but a lot is going on in their minds,”explains counsellor Ian Faria.

On whether this is a only male pre-occupation, Sujendra Prakash says, “Nymphomania exists more in literature than in the real world. While men are addicted to sex, women are addicted to love. But there are women who are aware that sex is a weak point for men and may use this to their advantage.”

As for solutions, psychologist Karun Mathews says, “Intense counsellings and sessions with psychologists or psychiatrists is recommended.

In the west, Sex Addicts Anonymous, based on the template of Alcoholics Anonymous, has been doing some amazing work.”But unlike alcohol or drug addiction, where the ‘just say no’ mantra is clear-cut, recovering from sexual addiction is not so straightforward.

Telegraph story about Sanjay Joshi’s SEX CD

New Indian Press Story on Renukacharya SEX CD

Babul Lal Kathara arrested on Human Trafficking charges

BHUBANESWAR – A man in Orissa’s Bhadrak district has been arrested for allegedly raping his daughter for over a decade and forcing her to undergo several abortions over the years, police said Monday.

Bishnumohan Panda, a 58-year-old resident of Rajgurupur village, was arrested after his daughter complained to the police Saturday with the help of villagers, said Damodar Mohapatra, in charge of the police station in the village. The 32-year-old victim, who is now married and has two children, alleged that her father first sexually exploited her when she was studying in Class 9 and continued to do so for years, threatening her with dire consequences if she complained to anyone.

“Though my father later married me off to a poor man, he wanted my husband and me to stay at his home so that he could exploit me further,” the victims said in her complaint. “She also alleged that she was forced to undergo many abortions by her father in the past,” Mohapatra told IANS.

You dont have whatI have

You don't have whatI have

NEW DELHI(Xinhua) — A nine-year-old Indian boy has become the country’s youngest person to be charged with rape after he was booked by police for the alleged rape of a six-year-old girl by violent assault, reported the Times of India electronic edition Wednesday.

However, the accused, whose name was not revealed for security reasons, was granted bail by a juvenile court in Himachal Pradesh, northern India, after spending a night in a police lockup this week, said the report. The children have known each other in school in Indora, Himachal Pradesh, and used to play together. On Sunday, they were playing at the girl’s residence while their parents were out for work, when the boy assaulted her. A medical examination of the victim and the accused confirmed rape, according to the report.

Source: Xinhua, 2009-8-24

A court in India has convicted two members of the presidential bodyguard of raping a teenage university student six years ago. The attack on the 17-year-old student in 2003, sparked outrage across India, as it involved members of an elite unit at the presidential palace in New Delhi.

The two soldiers could be imprisoned for life.The New Delhi court also convicted two other presidential bodyguards of abducting and robbing the student, who was assaulted in a city park in broad daylight.
18 Aug 2009

Experts at the New Zealand-based University of Wellington found that 47 per cent of men first gaze at the breasts, while another third at a woman’s waist or hips. “Eighty per cent of first fixations were on the breasts and midriff. Men spent consistently more time looking at the breasts and also made significantly more fixations upon them than other regions,” the Sun quoted the study as saying. (more…)

March 26 .  Indian police have arrested a politician of the  hindu  extremist organization,  Baratiya Janata Party (BJP) in the northwestern province of Punjab for a second Friztl-like incest crime discovered in one week in the country, in which the man allegedly raped his 20-year-old daughter in the past eight years, said police Thursday. (more…)

Indian Girls in Bangladesh

Indian Girls in Bangladesh

Sept. 4: The flow has changed. Poor Indian girls are now being lured into Bangladesh for prostitution. Cellphones or even something as basic as a radio set are being used to lure these girls across the border.

Lured by a cellphone, this 16-year-old tribal girl Anna (name changed) from Pakur district in Jharkhand, is one such victim.

She was rescued from across the border area between India and Bangladesh. Recounting the incident, this girl from Moglaband village, said, “He (the middleman) told me that I can buy a cellphone and a wristwatch, just like he was wearing. All I had to do was to work in a big house.”
(more…)

Neck is the number one “soft spot” most women would love to have kissed. The ear came in second, followed by the inner thigh, according to a recent survey, Women also complained that their partners tended to stare down their top, while they should be staring into their eyes.  Most popular dream of a women was found to be to keep a man as a sex slave.

There is one sexual organ lots of people neglect and that’s the brain. It can certainly be a woman’s passport back to sexual nirvana!

Forget long walks and calorie-controlled diets, the sure shot way to live a longer life is: get a second wife.

That’s the conclusion of a new research, which has suggested that men from polygamous cultures outlive those from monogamous ones.

After accounting for socioeconomic differences, men aged over 60 from 140 countries that practice polygamy to varying degrees lived on average 12 per cent longer than men from 49 mostly monogamous nations, says Virpi Lummaa, an ecologist at the University of Sheffield, UK. (more…)

Next Page »